All the Lonely People
I recently read an article in Christianity Today that explained how Americans are starving for significant relationships.
It explains: Earlier this year, the American Sociological Review published a disturbing study, "Social Isolation in America: Changes in Core Discussion Networks over Two Decades."
Researchers reported a "remarkable drop" in the size of people's core network of confidants—those with whom they could talk about important matters.
As of 2004, the average American had just two close friends, compared with three in 1985. Those reporting no confidants at all jumped from 10% to 25%. Even the share of Americans reporting a healthy circle of four or five friends had plunged from 33% to just over 15%.
When isolation increases, so does the risk for a host of physical, social, and psychological ailments.
The writer proposes that perhaps the same thing sabotaging marriage is undermining friendship: our increasing unwillingness to commit to relationships that require sacrifice, mutual accountability, and a generous share of humility. “That refusal is often not so much willful as fearful,” the writer states.
Yet, friendship is fascinating and highly rewarding.
Why are else are people obsessed by TV shows such as Cheers, Friends, and now Grey's Anatomy? They portray the lives of people in multilayered friendships.
I just want to say that I am extremely grateful to have a community of people to call friends, many of whom feel more like family.
Does the world want what we’ve got? How can we offer Christ’s love to a lonely culture? What are ways we can extend our community to those who have none?
posted by Carrie at 9:37 AM
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